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She understands that when something is wrong it should be you two together against the problem and not you vs. You can be your normal dorky and weird self around her and she still likes you.
Someone who actually challenges me. I find it really irritating, and boring, when a girl agrees with me on everything to try and impress me. Really liking you. Not putting you down in front of her friends, your friends, anyone. Not being on the lookout for things to be upset about. Along those lines, someone who can adapt to a given environment and is mentally and emotionally flexible. Not being easily offended. Being capable of rational conversation. Walking around in underpants. Making coffee for me on a Sunday morning. Getting along with my family.
Lots of stuff, really. Is as open to new things, caring but not overly so, honesty is cool, can take a joke and likes to organize events. Bonus points for being smart. My ideal cool girl? I want her paler then the moon with eyes that shine like stars. It really all depends on what she cooks like. And contrary to the opinion of my contemporaries, I would like her to have a brain and for the most part speak her mind.
This sounds like a cop-out answer, but it is just the simple truth… Can you be yourself around her? I have dated girls in the past that I felt like I had to change myself to suit them. She and I really clicked on this deep level. Honestly, what could be cooler than somebody that you share your desires, interests, and your unfiltered self with? Someone who can live her life. Has her own interests and hobbies, and shows interest in yours. Nothing is more boring than a girl that watches Netflix all day I want a cool girlfriend does nothing with herself.
When other men try to hit on you, make sure you let them know you have a boyfriend. Not everyone has a good day, I love it when my girlfriend tries to brighten up my days. Self-confidence: a woman is the most attractive with a little bit of self-confidence. Understand your man. Usually a good hug, intense kiss or a spontaneous blowjob can fix that mood though, as I mentioned in the second paragraph.
Drinks beer, has her own friends but gets along with mine, and most importantly puts up with my shit without holding a grudge. Basically, your bro with a vag. A hobby, something they can talk about enthusiastically that has nothing to do with other people. No Tuesday nights spending 4 hours on Netflix. One of my friends wants someone who drinks beer and plays pool and drives fast cars. Another wants someone who hikes and plays trombone for the local symphony. Or maybe she knows how to code and likes standup comedy. Or girl, or whatever.
Bonus points if she actually watches it with me or plays it with me. She has her own friends but is also friends with my friends. My definition of a cool girlfriend is simple. Leave me alone sometimes. Just fucking leave me alone. My brain gets all haywire and I become extremely stressed and over-reactive. My temper gets completely out of control too. With my ex-wife I would wake up in the middle of the night while she slept and go play video games for a few hours and then go back to sleep. Anyway, that is the secret to being cool.
Just let your guy have some alone time and let him pursue his own interests during that time. If a guy loves you he really is just playing poker with the guys and not hunting for another woman. If she says what she means.
If so please just say so instead of saying okay then being mad when I get back. A cool girlfriend will make a fancy bourbon drink for you and ignore your loud farts. I swore off bourbon, but I will drink a mint julep if she makes one. Leaving me alone. Sometimes I just want to come home, throw a Hot Pocket in the microwave and go to bed. Allowing me to do that without being upset is pretty cool. I want you to have your own shit going on besides me.
I just want to play video games this weekend. If you want to hang out while I do that, cool. But you should go out or catch up on your shows in the other room. In fact it has very little to do with you. Has her own things going on. She has to have a life separate from yours, with her own goals to achieve and her own dragons to slay. A girl with her own hobbies, passions, opinions and things she cares about.
A girl who is curious to learn new things and who can teach me new things. A girl who can get me out of my comfort zone and who is excited when I take her out of hers. A girl who can show me something new. A girl with a personality. When she is your best friend and you have no problem being anyone but yourself.
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